Connect more with your teens emotions
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Help your teen develop awareness about emotions
Teens tend to act on impulse or visceral reaction. They make judgments before they really know how another person is feeling.
Teach them to make sure they understand another's feeligns and position before they make a decision. For example, their first impression of parental concern might be parental anger. Make sure they know the basis for what you express.
If your position is based on emotion, tell them that. Otherwise, they may find it irrational. They will appreciate your honesty.
Teach teens to check things out before they go with their gut.