Connect more…with your teen’s emotions

Why do you keep arguing with me?

• Teens like to argue; it stimulates their brain.
• They are developing new skills in thinking and logic, and like to exercise them.
• Arguments are not necessarily about winning, but teens like to see if they can.
• Don't let them win through attrition. They will try to wear you out, but it you have a strong position, stick to it!
• Make sure you are clear about your position and the reasons for it. If you are unclear, teens just get confused.